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Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Carrying Other Peoples Problems

Hello my Fast Life friends,

I hope that everyone is doing well today and living your dreams to the fullest. Yesterday we talked about living your dreams and a lot of you really enjoyed the discussion.  I am glad that you are enjoying your Trendy Topic of the day. If there is ever anything that you would love to discuss please let me know. We are family here and we can discuss anything. That's why today I want to discuss Problems. Not just any problems but carrying other peoples problems. Please make sure that you post your views on this discussion.

Trendy Topic of the day:    Carrying Other Peoples Problems

Everyone today have problems. Today's economy makes us all have problems. It's all about how we deal with our problems.

There are people that want you to fix the problems that they are having not realizing that you have your own problems to fix. A lot of us feel like it is our obligation to help those that are close to us because we say that we love them. We feel like if we don't help then it makes us selfish.  So what do we do? We put their problems on our shoulders and try to carry their problems and ours then we go into a depression with ourselves because it's too much to carry. Why do we do ourselves like this?

If your are the person that takes on everyone else's problems, it's time for you to break free and give their problems back to them and quick. We are not made to take on everyone else's problems. We are made to take on only our problems and no this does not make you selfish, it makes you smart and stress free. It's easy to handle your own problems because you know to take one problem at a time and handle it with ease.

Don't put more on yourself then you can handle because you are not being fair to yourself; and if you're not fair to yourself how do you expect others to treat you fair as well?

I say this from experience because I was once that girl that took on every ones problems because I didn't want to feel selfish or be called a bitch. I was not happy with myself but everyone that had dumped their problems on me were doing okay and no one thought about how I felt. I realized that I didn't want to do this any more. I didn't want to carry everyone else's baggage and carry mines to. I gave everyone back their problem and once I did that I realized that I didn't have any problems and the ones that I did were so small that it was practically nothing. I couldn't see that because everyone else's problems were blocking mine. Now I have more peace then I have ever had in my entire life and I do what I love to do and that's write and tell great stories. Not only do I do that but I also touch people's lives and make a difference and that's priceless. You can do the same if you give every ones problems back to them and take care of your own.

I hope that you have enjoyed this discussion and that it gave you something to think about. Thank you for allowing me to come into your home and share my thoughts with you. I hope that you live your dreams and find peace in yourself. Please feel free to post your comments and let me know what you think and remember if there is something that you want to talk about let me know and you can best and believe we will definitely have that discussion. Thank you for your participation and constant support.

Why do we carry other people's problems?
Do you feel obligated to help others that you say you love? Why?
Do you feel it's easier to take on others problems then taking care of your own? Why?

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Living The Dream

Hello Fast Life friends,

I hope everyone had a great day and being productive with your time. I know that I am. There is not enough hours in the day to do everything that I need to do but I continue to stay busy and do what I have to do and stay focus on what's important to me.

Each and every day you allow me to come into your home and share my life with you. I appreciate you for taking the time to listen and also giving me feedback on what you feel is right or wrong as well.  Everything that you tell me I take to heart and use it to better myself. Today I want to discuss something that we all know so well. Sometimes we chase it, sometimes we live it, sometimes we fight for it, and then there are times that we feel like we can't have it. Do you know what it is yet? Well if you haven't figured it out yet it's called a DREAM.

Trendy Topic of the day:    Living The Dream

We all have dreams sometimes we live the dream, sometimes we chase the dream, sometimes we fight for the dream, and then there are times that we feel like we can't have the dream.  Well I want to tell you that if you want the DREAM bad enough you will stop at nothing to have the dream.

So many of us were/are told that we aren't shit, ain't going to be shit and will never have shit.  It's not easy knowing that the people that say they love you feel this way about you. Some of us believe what others think of us and then some of us don't care what they say because our determination is so strong that no matter what they say, we are determined to conquer the world.

People say that the sky is the limit well I say the moon is the limit because it goes way beyond the sky and there so many endless possibilities in the world, so why would you just want to stop there where there is so much further to go. Don't limit yourself to what you can do. If you want it you can have it, but you have to work hard for it because nothing is given to you.

For those that have it easy and have a great support system; appreciate what you have and cherish it with every breath in your body because without that support system you are out in the world alone with no one to turn to doing it on your own. It's not easy either because you have more people telling you that you can't do it then you have telling you that you can do it. Be smart who you allow in your circle because negativity will bring you down. If you hang with positive people then you will remain positive. Remember to always put you first and never put your dreams on the side for no one. It's time to get up and put your goals and life in order. It's time to start living the dream.

I hope that this will encourage you to do what it is that you love to do. The way that I am doing what I love to do and that's write and tell great stories. Thank you for your participation and constant support.

What is your dream?
What are you doing to live your dreams?
Do you  have a support system? If so what kind of support system do you have?

Monday, July 11, 2011

Making Dreams come true

Hello my Fast Life friends,

I hope everyone had a great and productive weekend. I know that I did. I got a lot of my new book The UnMarritable done and it's going to be a hot one. See what Kenya does next after Livin the fast life. Thank you for your constant support.

Today we are going to talk about something that so many of us know about but are scared to try. We are going to discuss Dreams and making them come true. Something that is by far, easy to do. I want to know what your dreams are and what you want to do to make them a success. Please feel free to post your comments and share with me what your dreams are. Thank you for your participation and constant support.

Trendy Topic of the day:      Making Dreams come true

Dreaming is big. We all have dreams but some of us strive to live out those dreams. It's not easy being a self- published author. There is a lot of work involved in this and no one told me that I was going to have to work this hard. I realized that there would be some work but not this much work. My dreams are that I will be a best selling, published author and have my own organization; preventing teenage pregnancies and sexual abuse. Those are my main two goals right now and I am working extremely hard at both. I will stop at nothing until I succeed. It's hard having to promote your own book by yourself , write the next book and then also try to make sure that I am able live day to day. Although the journey has not been easy I have fought my way through every bit of it. I will not allow anyone to hold me back from my dreams or tell me that I can't live my dreams, because I am in control of my own destiny and you are too. If you want it bad enough you will fight to have what you want. Go get it and stop at nothing until you have what you want.

What is your dream?
What are you doing to achieve that dream?
What are the things that you can do better to reach your dream?
How many times have you been told that you couldn't live your dreams and how many times did you believe that?

I hope you enjoyed your Trendy Topic of the day. I hope this will give you a chance to re-evaluate your situation. Thank you for allowing me to come into your home once again. I have great friends. Till tomorrow my fast life friends.

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Family Betrayal

Hello my friends,

I really hope that everyone had a wonderful day. I got a lot done myself. I have been working on the new book The UnMarritable that will be coming to you soon. I know that I have true friends because normally someone would complain about not getting their Trendy Topic of the day but my friends didn't complain or beat down my door looking for it. This is how I know that I have to hurry up and finish this second book. You're not beating down the door for the Trendy Topic but you are sure rushing me to get this second book to you and I am doing my best to do just that. I worked on it all day yesterday and since 9 a.m. this morning. I told you that I would bring you a Trendy Topic that everyone can relate to and I am keeping my word.

The one thing that we all can relate to is family betrayal. I see a lot of posts on facebook and twitter complaining about family. Today we are going to take this time and let it all go. Here we are allowed to express ourselves and say what's on our minds. So today is say what you feel and let it all go. Say what you have been wanting to say to a family member or about a family member. You do not have to put the names or your name to express how you feel just let it go. Thank you for your participation and constant support.

Trendy Topic of the day:    Family Betrayal

You are my family and I never thought that you would betray me and make me feel like you have. When no one was there for you, I was. When you had no where to go, I opened my home to you. When everyone was against you, I stood up for you because you are my family. The day your kids were born I knew that they were precious and lil gems and would always love them like they were mine. You almost lost your children and I was there to step in and keep them out of harms way. You get mad at me over something I can't control. You can't fault me for the life you choose to live. I have only been there to help you pick up the pieces every time you fall. No matter how many times you gave me the shaft, I loved you anyways because you were my family. The to do the Unthinkable and take something so precious away from me because of your own stupidity is selfish and damn right cruel. How could you do another human being the way you do me and you call me your family. You took something away from me that can never be replaced and now I'm walking away from you and the betrayal you have put me through for good. I will never look back, and for the baby I will never see; I hope she stay blessed and protected at all times and never learn the cruelty that you have in your heart.

What do you want to say to a family member or share about family betrayal?
Do you feel like family or friends will betray you first? Explain
How did the passage make you feel?Explain
Is there anything else that you feel like you need to say that you haven't already said? If so what?

I hope you enjoyed your Trendy Topic of the day and feel better after expressing yourself the way you want to. Thank you for your participation, constant support and joining me, until tomorrow friends.

Tuesday, July 5, 2011


Hello to my readers and friends,

I hope everyone enjoyed their holiday weekend and it was full of Love. Everyday we have a Trendy Topic and this week will be no different. I would like to know what Trendy Topics you would like to discuss. We all know that Livin the fast life is a voice of the people and we should be able to share our thoughts and views the way we want. Let me know what you want to discuss and you could see your Trendy Topic right here.

Today is Monday, and we are going to start the week out, simple and calm. I am going to do something a little different this week. I can going to post passages from my books or other authors/authoress books that would like to share this week as well. I hope that you are ready for the discussions because they are going to be hot. Thank you for your participation and constant support and don't forget to post your views so everyone will know how you feel about your Trendy Topic of the day.

Trendy Topic of the day:   Love

Here is the man that I have been looking for all of my life. The man that was in front of me all the time expressed to me the genuine love that he had for me. He never left me; he was waiting for the right time to come sweep me off my feet.

When we breathe we breathe as one, when we laugh it only has one sound, every time he looks at me I get weak to my knees and butterflies in my stomach, when he kisses me it's gentle and soft as a feather, and when we make love he knows how to send my body to ecstasy over and over again and now I can hear the precious sounds of the wedding bells or can I?

Do you think this is real love or just the kind of love that you dream about?Explain
What is your definition of love?
How can you tell when you have found love?