Don't give a man all of you. Leave something for yourself

Hello Fast Life family,

I hope everyone enjoyed your weekend. This is the beginning of a new week and many of you know that I like to post excerpts of my book for you. I want you to have a taste of what you will be getting when you read anything that I put out. I hope that you enjoy the excerpts and trendy topics that I post. I thank everyone for joining me and spreading the word about Livin the Fast Life. Please feel free to share your views. I respond to each comment individually. Don't forget that you can purchase Livin the Fast Life as well. You can find the links to Amazon.com and barnesandnobles.com on your right hand side. Thank you for your participation and constant support.

Livin the Fast Life:  Don't give a man all of you. Leave something for yourself.



My grandmother use to tell me to make sure that I kept a spare because you never knew when your good thang is going to have a blow out.  All my life I lived by this especially when I realized that men couldn't be trusted.  I gave a lot of myself to these men but I could never truly give them all of me because I knew that it wouldn't last.  Every true relationship that I had, I wanted it to work out.  I've been engaged so many times, but after being with a person after so many years they start to show their true colors.

People think that I cant commit or that I am scared of commitment but it's not that at all.  The truth is that I can commit but men can't commit themselves to me.  The men in my life loved me but they were not in love with me they were in love with my sweet candy apple.  They could not love me enough to honestly make me their wife.  I was not always their first priority and if I couldn't be their first priority I knew that I could not marry them.  My belief for marriage is very strong and I don't believe in divorce. I feel like when two people make that commitment before God anything can be worked out.  That's the reason why I haven't been married because I didn't want to marry for all the wrong reasons.  When I get married it will be strictly because I love that person unconditionally just for who they are.

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Are you still interested in reading? Why?
What are your views on marriage?
Is there anything that you would do differently? If so what?